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Mudassir Ali
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Originally Answered: Can I marry a Chinese girl?
Nearly three years ago, I met a Chinese woman on an Asian internet dating site. We corresponded (a lot) by the site, then email / WeChat, then phone, ultimately fell in love, I visited her in China (and met her family), we got engaged (in China), I brought her to the US (after all the paperwork and waiting periods), we got married, and soon we’ll celebrate our first anniversary.
That sounds like a lot to happen in only three years, but I found the right one.
Chinese women don’t necessarily like men because they’re foreign, or from this country, or that country, but how that person treats them.
As my fiancée said, when we met together in China, “when you leave, will you just forget about me? will I see you again?” – she talked about the real risk of getting involved with a man from another country, who will just “change his mind” and abandon the fiancée.
One of the things where my fiancée and I got along great was with our similar senses of humor.
As you should be when seeking a bride (from any culture or country):
Be yourself (and be single of course)
Be honest
Be sincere
Be loyal (to the one you find)
Be loving
Be true
Be in it for the present and the future
Best of luck to you.
————— Update —————-
We were married in August 2016; and now live in the US Northeast, but have traveled to several countries and many US States.
We love each other and love being together.