How have you motivated yourself to change your behavior?

By placing myself into a closed, purposeful, mutually supportive and mutually complementing environment.

I wouldn’t be able to motivate myself to change myself, after all one can’t lift oneself by pulling one’s own hair.

But utilizing the instinctive attributes of envy, shame, desire for respect in the right environment, we can push, pull one another to such an extent, that we can change ourselves in fundamental ways this way.