What did your mother or father say to you when you were young that you remembered your whole life?

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Mudassir Ali 10 months 1 Answer 120 views

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  1. I was a virgin at age 13 and was raped by a 19 year old after 4 months of being sexually assaulted by him. (Its a story I’d prefer not to get into further, it was hell) I told my parents that I was raped, they asked me how I wanted to handle it and I took a day to ponder and the next day told them I thought it was illegal and that we should prosecute. My mother told me that if I did that my name would be in the paper and it would ruin my reputation. And ruin the family also. So I spoke to my father and he told me that if I acted a slut that I will always be treated like one and told me that men are different and they dont have the same control as a woman. He then proceeded to tell me that it was my fault for putting the guy in a position that he wasnt in control of and they ignored it. So the belief that it was my fault again got me raped at 17 and from that point on I was certain it was always my fault which made me a repeat victim. To this day I’ve been raped by 5 different men. I’m 42. But havent been raped for a good while now so I’m hopefully done with this era of my life…I hope.

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