What is the best kind of woman to marry?

Mudassir Ali
Feb 26, 2020 01:31 PM 0 Answers
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Mudassir Ali
- Feb 26, 2020 01:32 PM

I can only share my experience:
I married a woman I wanted to talk to before I wanted to have sex with her;
I married a woman who clearly loved me and wanted me, not someone like me.
I married a woman whose integrity I trusted.

I expected her to be making brilliant career, she choose to sit at home with our children. I expected us to build business together, she turned out to be totally unable to anything like that. Doesn’t matter. She stayed with me through sort-of OK, though poor, through rich, through poor again (long story) – and I am working hard on been able to test her with riches again (she’ll pass). I made plenty of mistakes, she made plenty. We were loosing and gaining weight, oscillating between hot and not at all.

It’s OK. We are helping each other to develop into our better selves. We have a family – her, me, the kids.

You cannot measure and plan everything. You can earn many times more of what you have, or you can have a breakdown and have trouble recovering. She can have sudden success, or attention from someone richer, or hotter. The only way to get through the life together is to place this togetherness above everything else.

You sound like you want to start your own startup. You can succeed, or you can fail. You want your wife to be by your side regardless.

So don’t try to define what kind of person she should be. She can be a loyal wife providing you with care and stability, a comrade-at-arms coding away side-by-side with you, or even a top entrepreneur who’ll make you her CTO – you don’t know until you find her.

Just be yourself, talk like yourself, share your plans, talk about what you want to do, what is important to you. And listen to her.

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