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  1. Oh, God. Pakistani parents… I guess I’ll talk about my own, but these things are fairly common from what I hear.

    train their daughters for dealing with their future in-laws (usually mother-in-law… I’m in America, and my mom still worries about this. Yikes. It’s usually the mother who’s concerned about this)
    The mother watches dramas and is moved and feels like there’s some teachable message, the father grumbles about dinner.
    Naps. Lots of naps.
    Jokes about the child’s future marriage.
    “You can do that after you get married.”
    *child brings home test, the grade is a 90%* “Where is the other 10%?”
    Lectures. Lots of lectures. Islamic lectures, “when I was your age” lectures, “back in Pakistan” lectures, etc.
    Interrogate the child about every social interaction he or she has had in the last 72 hours.
    (usually mother) tries to protect the child from the infamous “nazar” which is cited as the cause from anything to a tiny scratch to world war.
    Talk to other parents about their kid. Talk to their kid about other parents.
    *kid is currently using an electronic device* “Abdullah from the other side of town is doing this, and this and this… not comparing you… just telling you…”
    They brush off illnesses. They will help you get treatment (maybe not even that if it’s a mental thing) but they will often refuse to acknowlege them.
    They’re protective, but that often turns out well in the future.
    In the end, they really just want the best for their kids, just like any normal parent

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